This morning I overheard one of the class mates from India, whose second language is English, saying, “According to somebody (I can’t remember the name)…” among the other Indian guys. The ‘somebody’ was, in fact, one of their friends whom I know as well. I felt it was unusual that she was saying like that. Because it was the first time that I've ever heard of people using that phrase, according to, when they were delivering what their ‘close’ friends had said. Employing that phrase in a case like that might not be grammatically incorrect but it made me speculate about the unsolved question I have been desperately trying to work out since I began to learn English. What is the best way to speak English?
The students in my country, Korea, spend great amount of time in studying English from the middle school. We spend so much time on it just sitting on a chair with a text book on a desk that we sometimes forget the language is none other than a mean of communication. English is, for us, something that always has to be right, not only in the test but also in our normal life. Let me get what I am trying to say cleared with giving an example.
I am looking for something I need to buy in a supermarket and got a clerk. I know I am not good at English and worrying about how I am going to make the question sound nice, not awkward. Then, finally, came up with this. “Do you sell it?” Does it sound a little bit strange? It could be, but even if it does there is no way the clerk isn't able to make out what I mean. Well, then, wouldn't it be better to sit back and get relaxed when I talk with those who speak English? Instead of struggling to figure out what would be the best expression in the situation. As if I have a no difficulty with English but the people with blond hair and blue eyes.
What do you reckon?